Everyone wants to rain on your parade.  Get ready for it.  One constant criticism I hear is that for me to become intimate in such a short amount of time with any given woman means she’s a total slut.  I laugh when I hear this.  Funny thing is it’s always the guys with the least amount of experience with women who tell me this.

Of course they can’t conceive of this happening consistently.  Because they don’t have the experience, knowledge, or know how to approach, open, attract, create rapport, seduce, and date numerous women.  They’ve never done it.  And they don’t want to believe what might take them 10 dates to accomplish takes me 1 or 2. 

Intimacy has many forms but it usually begins on an emotional level.  Hot girls generally don’t experience feelings of closeness or understanding when complimented on their physical appearance.  Creating a bond based on real feelings is what begins emotional intimacy, which then leads to or makes physical intimacy a natural progression.  If you’re comfortable and in touch with yourself, then you’re able to leap frog the protracted chronological process that most men believe emotional intimacy requires.   

The best part of all this is that I use to be one of those guys, one of the non believers.  I couldn’t talk to women to save my life.  I had no idea how to connect, create rapport, laugh, or how to approach and open.  I’m proving everyday to myself and on these pages that becoming proficient with women is a skill-a learnable skill.  And one that I can teach you..

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