Do you remember the reality show Millionaire Matchmaker or something like this where girls were interviewed and qualified by a woman who ran a dating service for millionaires?  Anyway a friend of mine in L.A. joined the service and was promptly asked out by one of the “millionaires.”

If you’ve read any of my book, you know that I’m a big fan of sourcing women from a myriad of places.  My program lists 40 such places, activities, and events.  It’s kind of like taking batting practice, or going to the driving range, you simply need an abundance of women to begin executing your skill set.   

Anyway, my friend’s extremely hot, works in the entertainment industry, and whenever we go anywhere guys just flip out.  So this guy contacts her and they begin a telephone/email relationship that ends up with her flying to the city he lives in.  Loving social dynamics like I do, I had a million questions for her as to the logistics, how she was going to behave, what if he does this or that, etc. 

I’ll save the details for later but here is what I found most interesting.  Before she left on the trip she’d gone to a social networking site and viewed his account.  From his pictures she gathered that he may have a girlfriend.  So when she arrives she basically asks him point blank.  It turns out homey wasn’t really prepared.  He stammers and then says, “Yes, uh, I have a girlfriend.” 

Talk about a momentum killer.  Gents, if you are trying to play the jealously plot to spike emotions, this is not how you do it.   Especially after you tell a girl you’re looking for a committed long term relationship.   

Suffice it to say that of course I realize that people need to be compatible and have like minded goals regarding relationships, but discussing it on a first date is too much.  I don’t know all the details here, but I certainly don’t think it’s out of line for this guy to have had a dating life.  And, be honest about it.   If you’re a self possessed man, the assumption is that you have a full life.  That includes a life that works for you when it comes to meeting your relationship goals. 

In my mind, it sounds like this guy lacks experience in handling his relations with women…do you?

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