I believe the ability to make experiences “fun” is among the single most attractive qualities you can demonstrate.  If you can make her smile and laugh, you allow her to learn about you in a way that practically forces her to like you.  How many people sincerely smile and laugh if they’re having a bad experience?

Why is attraction important?  I’ve said before that attraction is the gateway that leads to rapport and physical intimacy.  The mistake I see a lot of guys make is that they believe and act as if attraction is a one trick pony only to be used during the initial stages of trying to “create” a relationship.  But in truth attraction is not mutually exclusive to a certain stage of the relationship or a onetime phenomenon. 

It may not be a choice, but attraction must be present and constantly practiced during the relationship after it begins.  Even in those cases when you see a girl and you feel what you believe is a completely overwhelming sense of attraction-it will dissipate if not consistently practiced and demonstrated..

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