Have you ever noticed the difference between having to open a girl or set of girls cold approach versus being introduced to a girl or set of girls by a mutual friend?  Having an introduction relieves the necessity of an opener.  You don’t need to open a girl when you’ve just been introduced.  You already have credibility and share something in common.  She is probably ready to have a normal conversation.  At this point you should be jumping straight to attraction material. 

Unfortunately, unless you’ve spent time cultivating a social network or are a celebrity, you still have to do the heavy lifting.  I for one love opening because of the challenge it represents.  But I’m also aware that a social network that can provide this service for me is a valuable asset.  Especially when meeting high value women. 

Your immediate goal should be to become proficient at all the stages of opening, attracting, creating rapport and dating the women you desire.  But success doesn’t necessarily mean doing things the hard way.  A longer term goal is to create a social network that works for you.   There is no shame in that…you still have to execute the other stages…but sourcing women and starting from attraction is a lot easier than cold approaches…

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