Are you guys familiar with the concept “6 degrees of separation”?   Essentially what it means is that any one point, you are only 6 acquaintances away from any other person on the planet.   Why is this important?

Think of the instant rapport, value, comfort and trust you have when a friend of yours introduces you to someone.  By extension-since you share this person in common- you have about a 100 fold increase in credibility than if you had just bumped into each other on the street. 

Let’s say I wanted to meet Pamela Anderson.  How would I do this?  If I had no resources, contacts, or the occasion to bump into her (i.e. living in the same area, etc.) it would be pretty tough.  Now imagine if we shared a good friend in common.  He might say, “Hey Pamela, I’ve got this good friend I want you to meet.  I’ve known him for years, he’s a great guy and its funny we’ve never all been together, but we’re going to be out tomorrow night, why don’t you join us?  Blah blah blah

Presto, instant credibility.  My social network is responsible for my highest close percentage when meeting women for the first time than any other method.  Think about it.  When you share a friend in common, and they are talking you up, telling this person how great you are, etc., etc., it’s almost an automatic lock. 

Thus the power of a social network.  So how you do create one?  One that will constantly deliver streams of new women into your life and create numerous other social opportunities?  Begin by opening your mouth.  I mean it.  Say “hi” to every person who crosses your path in the course of your day.  Regardless if male or female, young or old, hot or cold.  You have to train yourself to be sociable.  Do not limit yourself to engaging or attempting to engage just hot chicks.  The best path I know to meet hot chicks is through their friends.  Many of which are not hot.  You need to think about this the same way. 

There is a second benefit to this as well.  Often times when speaking to other men or girls you do not find attractive, you are able to naturally create conversation.  You become very good at this.  There is a natural flow to how you speak because you are not nervous or anxious.  The whole goal of The Dating Matrix is to get you to a place where you operate from this natural persona inside of you.   You will be able to access this part of yourself far more successfully when you need it if you practice it constantly. 

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