How you ever been opened in conversation by a girl?  Here is what it looks like: girl walks up to you, girl smiles, girl says “Hi” or “I love your shirt” or ‘What are you drinking?”  The Dating Matrix will teach you that the odds of converting this into a successful interaction is akin to shooting fish in a barrel.   

Why?  Because she has taken it upon herself to let you know that she has a strong interest in you.  How can you tell from such a simple and innocent comment or question?  Remember, in this world men must do all the initiating.  From approaching and opening a conversation, to creating attraction, rapport, asking for her number, the first kiss, the first date, the fist sexual advance, etc.  If a girl is going to approach and initiate a conversation with you, it must be a pretty strong attraction on her part!  And at this point you are already in the model.  You don’t have to create attraction, you already have it.  For many, opening and creating attraction is the most difficult part. 

The Dating Matrix provides you a step by step template to approach, open, attract, create rapport, and then number close or more in any single interaction using the 4 Segments to Conversational Success.   The material you have to create attraction is not necessary if she has opened you and by definition it has been created.  You simply move to the next step in the framework.

You’ll learn that when you have attraction from a girl, it’s almost hard to screw it up…

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