Excerpts from interview with Charlie Page 

Your program is very comprehensive.  Why so?

To change old patterns of beliefs and habits we have to deconstruct their validity.    And because in this society men must initiate nearly every aspect of every component to a relationship, the nuances are many.   We have to approach and open women in conversation, create attraction, develop rapport, ask for the number, ask for the date, design the date, introduce physical intimacy, etc. This doesn’t come natural to most men, especially men who are inherently shy or introverted.  Without the knowledge it’s a difficult process, and part of the difficulty-even when knowing the verbal and non verbal skills it requires- is that many of these men possess very limiting self concepts based on their past experiences.

So what I’ve done with the program-aside from providing the technical/practical verbal and non verbal skill sets- is to challenge that self-concept.  And one of the ways to do this is by addressing “inner game.”  “Inner game” refers to how you relate to life based on how you feel about yourself.  It’s your own self perception.    Creating a proper self image combined with the technical skills and then providing exercises which lead to success is the platform that allows for positive change.

How do you respond to those who say you’re fooling women?

It’s always interesting to me that although I believe women are the far more intuitive of the sexes, they seem oblivious to the real difficulty a majority of men experience when it comes to approaching them.  Again, perhaps it’s because in our society men must do nearly all the initiating in social interactions.   But whatever the case, I’m helping men overcome this initial fear by providing a template to help ease the social interaction and speed rapport.  By doing so, I’m allowing for two people to determine compatibility authentically in a far quicker time frame.  I think that’s very helpful to both sexes.

Reprinted with permission of Charlie Page Productions LLC  

Filed under: Uncategorized