What “standard” do you need to satisfy before pursuing and integrating women in your life?

1. Looks like Brad Pitt
2. Cash like Bill Gates
3. Brains like Stephen Hawking
4. Style like George Clooney
5. Better Apartment
6. Better Car

This mindset is very typical of guys who have very little if any experience approaching women and creating relationships of any type with the opposite sex.  The reason why is because for any of us who became successful opening, attracting, and dating women realize that the battle is in our heads.  I can think of dozens of examples during my years of frustration of guys who had less than me in any given category dating more frequently and better looking women. 

Has it occurred to you that the best looking girls are not always with the best looking guys?  In fact, many guys that are dating high value girls I know are quite average in every category. 

The most important aspect to focus on in the present is developing your verbal and non verbal skill set.  At this point your lack of initiation has filled your head with what you believe is holding you back.  But I sincerely doubt any of these things which you are allowing to hold yourself back are based on quantitative feedback from opening numerous sets of girls. 

Because you believe it about yourself doesn’t mean its true.  The reason I know this is because if you had the skills to approach, open, attract and create rapport with women, the “standard” to which you are holding yourself to would disappear.  Simply vanish.  Your success would make it irrelevant…isn’t it time you substituted knowledge and results for excuses?

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