The fundamentals will set you apart from about 99% of the guys out there.  Fundamentals in this case are comprised of both the non verbal/verbal skill sets found in The Dating Matrix and practiced and executed until completely internalized.

But there is one component that if maximized can put you over the top especially when dealing with high value women such as 9’s and 10’s.  It’s your social status.  Think of any celebrity, be it entertainer, athlete, business man, or politician.  It my very well be the case that these guys in and of themselves have very little skill when it comes to relating to women.  But because of their social status, they don’t have to be skilled at the fundamentals.  They stand out so far and above those around them in the sense of a particular achievement, the distinction in their notoriety automatically translates into desirability for most women. 

What does this mean for you?  I am a huge proponent of always working to increase your social circle.  That really is the whole process of getting good with girls.  It’s social skills and controlling social interactions.  Expand those that you know and work toward meeting people who hang out with the type of girls you want to meet.  Cold approaches may be the workhorse of initiating and meeting women, but that shouldn’t be your ultimate goal.  I know my success rate with high value women goes through the roof when I’m already part of her social circle or introduced by a mutual friend.  You don’t have to be a celebrity to have social status.  You can improve your standing dramatically by knowing those and being known at the venues you frequent..

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