Skill set…Skill set…Skill set….I feel like John Wooden (ex coach of UCLA) who always stressed the fundamentals.  The skill set combined with the fundamentals acts as a beacon to where you are in the process.  Oh, you’ve already opened her and pivoted to normal conversation?  You are now working your attraction material.  You’ve successfully sparked attraction?  You’re now entering the screening phase.  And so on and so on.

When you have a model for successful interactions with women, why would you ever not know what to do on a date?  Why would you defer to the old way when you have the knowledge to advance said interaction by expressing authentic parts of your personality in each stage of the model?  I’m completely convinced every guy has interesting stories and experiences; but most guys don’t know the means by which to “package” them in an interesting and enthusiastic way. 

If you’re good at getting first dates but never repeat dates, you lack knowledge.  Perhaps you are a good looking guy, or can open girls with your wit and sense of humor.  But what separates the boys from men and where the rubber hits the road is in the rapport stage.  The rapport stage is what creates emotional bonding and is the gateway to physical intimacy.  Getting a lot of first time dates can be an ego trip…learning to close with a majority of them is a life changer…

PS  I want to thank all of you who were able to listen to my live radio interview yesterday and provided feedback…The Dating Matrix will give you the blue print you need to be successful with women…thanks fellas!

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