First Things First

I want a girl with extensions in her hair

Bamboo earrings at least 2 pair

A Fendi bag and a bad attitude

That’s all I need to get me in a good mood

LL Cool J

This is a guy who knows what he wants.  He has her down to the accessories she’s wearing.  Very detailed.  I like that. 

How is this helpful to you?  The more you know about the kind of woman you desire the better your chances of manifesting your relationship goal with her.   For instance, if you desire a Sunday school teacher, you probably wouldn’t hang out at a strip club to meet her.  Likewise, if you want to date a stripper, you probably wouldn’t spend time at your local library. 

Knowing where your target spends time also yields a bounty of other information.  For instance if you’re more likely to meet her at a coffee shop, your approach and opener will be crafted for what’s appropriate in that venue.  The model doesn’t change, but rather acknowledges the differences between various settings to give you the most effective means to control frame and get to the rapport stage quickly..

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