I was out this weekend with a group of friends and one of the girls was telling me how she had seen this guy at a venue a few months back.  When they’re eyes met she felt a spark, and liked him instantly.  He was with another woman at the time, but later at a different venue he was alone and attempted many times to speak with her.  She said she didn’t really talk to him and it ended up leaving the impression she wasn’t really interested.

Fellas, the point of this story is that sometimes you won’t get the girl.  I don’t know what this guy did to blow this interaction-maybe nothing-but she simply decided she wasn’t going to mingle with him in spite of the fact that she found him attractive and interesting. 

Any so called “guru” who claims to be able to successfully open any girl or girls in any situation successfully is someone you should avoid listening to.  It’s simply not possible. 

My goal and the goal of The Dating Matrix is to put you in a position to execute the best strategy which yields the highest results consistently.  Getting rejected is part of that success.  Its also part of the risk.  The only real failure here is not attempting…

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