Has it occurred to you that what you find difficult others might find difficult as well?  Has it also occurred to you if you do nothing to acquire knowledge and advance yourself you’ll continue to experience the same difficulty?

For instance, most guys when they deal with girls who intimidate them never lead the interaction.  They can’t.  How can you lead an interaction if you are full of fear?  How can you lead an interaction if you don’t know how to in the first place?

Attraction is created, controlled an initiated by the male species.  Doing so defines you and sets you apart from the pack. If you are not leading the interaction, you simply cannot create attraction.  To say that a different way, if when you talk to women you suddenly become mute, avoid eye contact, and or become embarrassed, you’re not giving her a reason to find you desirable.  If you look great but can’t capture her verbally, your looks are worthless.

That’s why I’m adamant about controlling the frame of interaction by doing 90% of the talking for the first 2 or 3 minutes.  I’m just as adamant about physical escalation in the beginning stages of the interaction.  Creating attraction keeps you in set and allows for the advancement to the clarifying stage, which then leads to…The Dating Matrix

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