It’s amazing to me how habitually unwilling we all are to believe in positive results before we actually can see the finish line.  For instance, today I was driving to a meeting and I was running a little late.  Anyways I’m in a hurry and by all accounts it looked like the left lane was going to be quickest.   But counter intuitively I stayed right and the lane opened up and I made up a lot of time. 

My point is that you may know what you want in terms of the type of relationship and with whom you would like to have it with, but the route you take to find that person isn’t always as clear.   That’s why developing a social network is critical in order to constantly source and replenish new women in your life.

Now that’s probably something everyone can agree with.  But the problem comes when people who are intent on developing a network lose sight of the value of a particular relationship because they can’t see where it could possibly benefit them in terms of dating girls.   

What I know is that the larger your social network, the higher your odds of meeting and dating girls you desire.  In this regard, I can tell you everyone you meet has value.  If you limit yourself to only certain type of people, or certain nights you go out, or particular venues, you’re limiting your chances. 

The reason why is because it’s not always a straight line to get what you want or where you want to go.  But it’s nearly a straight line to get what you want if you reach the rapport stage when introduced by a mutual friend.  In this case you walk into the interaction with credibility and therefore don’t need the “heavy lifting” of what a lot of guys consider the opening stage to be. 

You never know where she’s going to come from, but by the sheer advantage an introduction gives you over a cold approach makes it worthwhile to consider everyone has value…

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