As you develop your skills to open, approach, attract and create rapport, you will get to the point where you don’t even have to think about the execution.  But one thing I’ve learned that’s important is that your skills must be calibrated depending on the woman. 

For instance, when I develop attraction with a woman, I talk about various subjects that are meant to indirectly demonstrate value.  Those topics I choose to reveal things about myself must constantly be toned down or emphasized more depending if I’m talking with a 10 or a 7. 

Here is what I mean.  If you find your self opening a woman who is of lesser value than you physically and personality wise, you can easily intimidate and lose her by demonstrating too much value.    She may already be dealing with a negative self perception, and as you divulge interesting facts about yourself it may push her further into her negativity by putting her in touch with her own inadequacies.  Its important to note however that beautiful woman can also have negative perceptions about themselves as well. 

This is why it’s so important to define the type of woman who matches your criteria on as many levels as possible.  The Dating Matrix will help you to do this by requiring you to complete an ideal mate profile.  The more you know about the type of woman you want to date, the more prepared you will be to date her.  You will know where she hangs out, the types of guys she goes out with, her interests, and how to attract her.

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