I thought I would take this chance to answer some comments and emails from you guys that seem to pop up pretty consistently.   A lot of the questions read like “Can The Dating Matrix really help me?  I’ve tried everything and I’m completely hopeless with women.”  Or the ever popular “My situation is different.  I’m not _____(fill in the blank) enough and I can’t change that and there is no way I can get a girl because of it.” 

What all of you share unfortunately is a lack of knowledge.  We all have to start somewhere.  Think of it like this…there was a point when you couldn’t tie your shoes…or calculate simple math equations…or drive a car. 

In order to overcome these (temporary) obstacles, you had to have the knowledge of how to accomplish these tasks, then you had to apply that knowledge and convert it into know how.  That’s all.  After you obtained the knowledge and applied it, you got the know how and you never forgot it. 

It works the same way with women.  It’s simply a question of knowledge and know how.  First it starts with a true desire for real and permanent change (see Wednesday’s post).  The Dating Matrix and I will provide the knowledge.  Next you will learn the know how from constant in the field practice and execution.  The action steps and accountability journal which form the basis of the program will ensure this.

One common problem you might struggle with is that now you’re an adult you’ve already overcome a lot of challenges in your life, but you still don’t have a solution for this one.    And you’ve gotten very comfortable with the perception based on past experience that you are not good with women.  The challenge isn’t obtaining the knowledge and applying it, although that will take some effort and time to get used to.  No, the real challenge in all this is changing the way you feel about and perceive yourself.  We are not talking about becoming a pro athlete, or the CEO of a fortune 500 company, or world famous celebrity.  We are talking about approaching women and being the man you are.  Are you going to tell me this is only for a chosen few???

Here is how simple it can be.  What if I told you I use many of the same routines on women over and over again?  If something works, why change it?  I have a routine for just about every situation I can find myself with girls.  I no longer have to rack my brain to know what to do next, how to interpret her verbals/non verbals, what to say, how to avoid the friends trap, how to get her number, how to ask for the next date, etc.  And you can too!!!

Let this program prove itself to you…but first prove your own determination and desire to change by making a commitment to yourself.  Once you’ve done this, you have paved the road to fulfilling your life and the women in it…

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