One of the best ways to learn how to be successful with women is to find a role model.  Someone who you’ve seen in the field approach, open, attract, create rapport and romantic relationships with women consistently.  I know for me having a role model was crucial to advancing my game with girls. 

One of my earlier sticking points was properly initiating and escalating kino.  I didn’t know how to introduce touching, holding, kissing, etc with girls.  I wasn’t sure enough about myself to do it in front of other people.  Then came along William.  He was absolutely amazing to watch with girls.  He never hesitated and almost instantly  would be taking girls hands whom he had just met, sitting them on his lap, touching their legs, etc.  I was mesmerized, and shocked.  I just couldn’t believe in such a short time he could be executing physical game like this.  In fact, I thought girls would find it very disrespectful. 

I was always waiting for it to blow up in his face but it never did.  And then something happened that helped give me the confidence to do it myself.  We were at an outdoor venue one night, and I walked over initiated with this unbelievably hot Asian girl.  Turns out she was a physical trainer, and believe me when I tell you her body was a walking resume.  Anyway, we got caught up talking about her private practice, and how we both enjoyed working out (this is before I had much game).   All the while William was sitting at a table behind me smiling at her, and laughing.  After a while I got up to leave and I came back to my spot at the table.  He smiled at her and told her to come over.  She walked over and immediately he had his hands on her hips, touching her legs, taking her hand.  His compliments were very strong, like “you know you have an incredible body, you’re a real thoroughbred.  you know how to use this body?” stuff like this.  After this brief exchange she ends up giving her number to him. 

I felt like an idiot.  Sure I was able to approach and open her but I may have well been her girlfriend.  I never even attempted any kino.   This experience happened years ago, but I remember it like it was yesterday.  It was at this moment I decided I would rather risk too much with girls than not enough.  I would avoid the friend zone at all costs and using kino was one of the ways to do it.   Having a role model will challenge you to expand your perspective. It will also speed your learning curve and get you where you want to be faster..  

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