Remember when you were a kid and you got your first big wheel?  The one with the emergency brake on the right side that you could pull and do 180’s?  remember how fun that was?  After a while though, you wanted to be like the big kids, and as you grew you went to a bike with training wheels.  After you got proficient with the training wheels you took your first ride without them.  Maybe someone pushed you from behind and before you knew it you’re balancing the bike on your own and riding it.  Pretty cool stuff.

This is probably how most of us went through the stages of getting to the point we could ride a bike.   Now for some, they had the desire to take it to another level and compete in cycling.  Still others wanted to do it professionally and are members of pro teams which tour the world, including competing in the Tour de France.  This a very tiny percentage and represents the top riders in the world.  But I wonder who has the most fun?  Is it the little kid ripping around on the big wheel?  Or is it when we graduated to training wheels?  Or maybe our first bike?  Or competing in professional competitions?

How does this relate to becoming proficient with women?  All of you have different goals and measures of success by which you will judge yourself when it comes to your relationships with women.  It’s not one size fits all.  Some of you will take the information in The Dating Matrix and become pick up artists.  Others will learn how to apply themselves to get that special someone.  There is no right or wrong, just whatever satisfies you.  In truth the criteria to focus on is your level of satisfaction… 

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