I know because I used to be there…but I still hate hearing stories of guys who just don’t have a clue…they may as well put a sign on there forehead that says “Don’t pay attention to me…I have no idea what I’m doing”

It’s like I’m watching “The Millionaire’s Club” show all over again.  If you want to become successful at something, you have to study, research, consult, practice and work to be better at it.  It starts with obtaining the knowledge, then learning how to apply it.  There is no other way.

So today “10″ (Argentine brunette bombshell) is strolling an popular outdoor mall in South Beach.  We are texting back and forth and she tells me that two guys she was walking towards just stopped, blocked her path, looked her up and down and wouldn’t move as she got near.  Unbelievable.  What does this tell a woman?  I’m going to grab you by the hair because I don’t know how to talk to you and drag you back to my cave?  I have to believe the results of this approach are consistently 0%.

Later while she was getting lunch, some guy in her periphery was staring her up and down and finally walked over and gave his business card to her explaining he could help her.  What???

Unfortunately, these guys represent the far majority of single and in many cases married men.  If they are unable to successfully approach and open, how can they know how to create rapport and maintain a relationship with a woman they desire?  It’s not like you can really do one without the other.  Opening is only the tip of the iceberg.  What this says to me is that this more a systemic problem then isolated skill set issue-and a very common one at that..

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