The Dating Matrix is comprised of ten modules, or chapters.  Each of the ten modules is designed to build one upon the other.  When you’ve completed the modules, you’ll have mastered all the skills involved in the process.  Here is how they look:

1.  GOALS

Begin with the end in mind.  It’s important to know what type of relationship you’d like to have as well as the type of woman you’d like to have it with.  Regardless of your decisions, you need to define both.  You’ll do that in this module. 

2.  GETTING YOUR HOUSE IN ORDER

To look the part, you must dress the part.  Do you shower daily, trim body hair, and select your wardrobe based on the potential for attracting a woman?  In this module, you’ll complete a needs analysis in the areas of grooming, wardrobe, automobile care, living space, and social budget.  The provided checklist will ensure that you’ve got the basics covered.  It may seem trivial, but it’s critical.

3.  COMMUNICATING WITH WOMEN 101

In this module we will focus on the Protocol of Flirting as well as the non verbal skills necessary to convey romantic interest.  You will memorize these skills and begin practicing them immediately through the Inclination to Initiate Exercise.

4.  COMMUNICATING WITH WOMEN 201

The Four Segments to Conversational Success is the framework from which all successful conversations are modeled.  I will present these verbal components into a series of steps that will take you from creating rapport, to bonding, to carrying on a conversation, to expressing romantic interest, to asking for her number, to calling to make a date, to initiating the first kiss, to sex, and more.

5.  COMMUNICATING WITH WOMEN 301

Today, I’m going to put all the components of Communicating With Women 101 and 201 together for you using conversation examples.  In addition, you will be provided a variety of conversation starters for various situations and scenarios.  We’ll finish with examples of using the telephone and e-mail when asking a woman for a date.

6.  WHERE TO MEET WOMEN

I hear many guys complain that their particular environment-be it a big city or a rural setting-lacks desirable women.  I’m going to review forty places and activities to help you meet and engage with new women.  You will also learn how to begin using the Internet as a source for finding potential relationships

 7.  QUALIFYING DATE

What do you do on the first date?  Where do you take her?  What do you say?  How do you interact with her?  How do you know if she likes you?  How do you express your romantic interest in a respectful way?  You’ll learn the answers to these questions and explore sample conversations in this module.  I’ll also provide a checklist for what you need to do to be successful. 

8.  CLOSING DATE

You’ve expressed your interest; she is aware of your interest; and she still wants to go out with you . . .  hmmm this is getting interesting.  Where do you go on the second date?  What are some of the flirting moves you’re going to perform?  What are the skills necessary to take this relationship to the next level?  How can you determine if she’s interested in going to the next level?  Again, you’ll be provided with sample conversations as well as a checklist that will put the odds in your favor.

9.  INTIMACY

This is a complicated topic, and in no way is this module meant to be comprehensive.  But I will offer some basics and I’ll help to get you into position to execute them so that you can provide her an experience that she’ll enjoy and you will too.

10.  COMMIT OR BREAK OFF

Once you find yourself in a relationship, how do you maintain it?  Or, do you maintain it?  This goes back to your relationship goals.  Is this person “the one” to keep, or is she the one to get rid of?  Either you need to commit or you need to break off.  I’ll help you consider the options and decide between the two.

For each module, I’ve included an action plan for you so that you can begin working immediately to develop that particular skill or move toward completing the corresponding task.

Before we begin in earnest, let me reiterate a couple of things:

First, where you are on the scale of experience in relationships with women is not important at the moment.  What is important is that you follow each exercise and task just as they have been laid out for you.  If you combine the practice that I suggest with the focus of achieving your relationship goals, while tracking your results through an accountability journal, you essentially ensure your own success. 

Take Note and Take Notes

Second, I do strongly suggest that you create an accountability journal.  Use a note pad or index cards, Excel spreadsheet, or a word processing document.  Choose any method that best allows you to keep track of your action steps and their results.  Forms are found in the Action Steps/Tasks section of each module.

And, third, I’ve designed this program to include all the steps necessary for you to become skilled at approaching, initiating, and creating a romantic relationship. 

In addition to The Dating Matrix Book, I offer the ability to execute The Dating Matrix online (coming soon).  Visit http://www.thedatingmatrix.com/ and simply choose which subscription program works best for your time frame and budget.  All action steps/tasks as well as a personal accountability journal and calendar are completed as you work through the program via the website.  In addition I offer a members forum, a personal blog, audio downloads, date examples, and numerous other products and resources to help ensure your success.

The tools and strategies found in The Dating Matrix will give you the skills necessary to create relationships with women you desire.  This program works.  I applaud you for taking this step to improve your life, and I welcome you to the program.

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