How to ask out a girl – I always cringe when I hear guys ask for a girls number before they’ve created attraction or have even begun a conversation. Why would a girl give you her number if you haven’t attracted her and given her a chance to be attracted to you? Imagine how many guys do this to girls all the time. Depressing. Imagine the results: depressing.

The phone number or contact information is best asked for after you have gotten her to commit to an activity. For instance, if I discuss how I enjoy clothes, and like to shop at x place, and so on and so forth, when I’m ready to leave I might say something like “Hey, I need new shoes. I’m going to x place next week to see if I can find something. You should meet me.” Or I’ll ask if she’s been to x place (bar/club/etc) and that me and some friends are going to check it out. She should tag along.

Getting her number at this point is necessary because we’ve agreed to meet up. “I’ll let you know when were going. What’s your number?” You’ve given her a reason to provide her number because of this future event. Simple. I call this Close Before Closing. and this is how to ask out a girl.

Eric Ivy
Dating Course

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