I got bit.   What can I say?  Occupational hazard?  What goes around comes around?  I didn’t plan for it, but it happened.  I’ve rejected love from so many women who wanted a deeper relationship I guess it was my turn.   

You met an Argentinian  knockout (well, actually more than 1, hehe) on these pages I call “10″ in the last month or so.  To say things got a bit heated would be an understatement.  Physically, we are on identical wavelengths.  Soft and slow, fast and furious, were there for each other.  From love to debauchery, we run the gamut.  And I can’t imagine too many other guys can give her the feelings I do. 

So when she told me she was leaving for St. Barths for New Years on her “friend’s” private jet, I thought oh well, that’s it for me.  She stopped by my place the day before she left.  We made love.   Passionately.  Then I kicked her to the curb.  Told her I couldn’t continue this thing…it was an impossible situation and right now despite my feelings I couldn’t and don’t think either of us could create the right situation to enter into a relationship.  Wait a minute, I’m the other guy here.  I’m always the other guy    But fellas, out of nowhere I felt a real connection with 10.  And although I don’t think I’m the only with feelings here, it was getting tougher for me to balance those with the reality of the situation. 

If I had to guess, I would say that her older mega rich boyfriend represents financial security.   I certainly can’t give the lifestyle he can.  Not yet, anyway.  But the funny thing about feelings is that they can easily overwhelm a situation like this.   When I met 10 I was extremely attracted to her physically, and I suppose I went about seducing her like any other women with whom I had an interest.  But somewhere after the seduction, and in between her spending quality time with me -sometimes entire afternoons in bed- I began to know her in a different way.

We did have a connection.  I was giving her something this other guy wasn’t.  I was putting her in touch with her feelings, challenging her to go to a place she probably hadn’t been in a long time.  I’m not trying to get Dr. Phil on you here, but I’m an expert with feelings.  That’s why I its very easy for me to create rapport with women specifically and people in general.  And this is what I am teaching you to become.  Women and men too relate to feelings.  Although in different ways, if you learn your own feelings and can perceive accurately those of others, you increase your chance of making a connection 10 fold.  Now of course I would be surprised if I don’t hear from 10 when she gets back…but not as surprised if I couldn’t say no to one more rendezvous

Well I do I have one hell of a consolation prize.  Remember Yanet from my Xmas party?  She’s in Aspen with friends and texted me yesterday to say hello and tell me it’s cold but beautiful.  I told her If I was there I’d keep her warm …but how am I going to kiss you on New Years?…work in progress I’ll keep you posted..

Last night, club scene here in South Beach…waiting to get in…of course only briefly ….a hottie giving me the once over…make a mental note…see her inside…a simple “Hi”…how are you?…with her girlfriend…Colombians visiting from LA…she’s a designer…blah blah blah…take both of them home…mini makeout with one…logistics a little difficult…couldn’t pull her back to my place…oh and the girl I refer to as boots was there as well…we shared a shot…some kino…and a great vibe…she was with other friends but we are coordinating for later in the week…

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

EI

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