In Miami, like most other major cities, there are specific nights for specific bars/clubs etc.  On Fridays, it might be X is the place to be, Saturday its Y and then on Sunday you want to be at Z.  The reason I bring this up is that the exclusivity of a particular club will always attract higher value girls.

This being the case, I once again journeyed to the Sagamore Hotel to attend the Social Miami party.  And once again the level of talent was top shelf.  Funny thing about high value girls….they bring out a lot of guys.  The place was packed and full of good energy.

I greeted several friends and as I walked back toward the pool, I noticed a couple of girls sitting on the patio of one of the cabana rooms.  They were off to one side engrossed in conversation but I could see directly behind them a room full of women (about 7) seated around a table pouring themselves drinks.  I walked past the two outside on the patio and entered the room through the open glass doors and with a big smile asked “Oh, is this the pool bar?” 

A few of the girls laughed and they offered me a rum and coke which I declined. But the fact they offered me a drink meant my presence was welcome.   I asked “What are you guys celebrating?”  One of the girls said it was her birthday and they were renting a room to party and hangout for the night.  I wished her a happy birthday and she says, “I’m a little stressed, it’s another birthday, and I’m starting to not enjoy these anymore (it was her 31^st!).”

“Oh, does this help?”   I moved behind her and started massaging her neck.  As I did so she complimented my technique and was like “Don’t stop, that feels great!” 

As I continued my wingman entered the room and we all started chatting together as a group.  The massage ended and then something very interesting happened.  The girl I gave a massage too asked if I would give her a kiss.   I said of course, and I gave her a light kiss on the lips.  Now, here is the really interesting part.  One of the other girls said, oh I want one too.  I ended up going around the room kissing all 7 girls…

Talk about social proof (you’ll learn what this is)- I basically had won over the entire room.  I had set the table for myself.  Ah, but I am greedy.   And this is Miami.  It was early in the evening, and I decided to leave the room and check out the rest of the scene.  After opening 2 more sets of girls, and before leaving to the next venue, I decided to head back to say goodbye to my new friends in the cabana.  As we got near the adjoining patio, I could see the room was really rocking.  There were now several guys hanging around, and the girl I wanted to close with was just being approached by another guy.  I walked in like I owned the place and said to her, “let me rescue you” and offered my hand.   She gladly obliged and we moved to a corner in the room and started talking.

Turns out she lives in Ft. Lauderdale and her brother is a DJ at one of the clubs in Miami.  I’ll call her Jill.  We spoke about the different places we hang out, and I let her know I had heard her brother play once or twice.  We chatted about where she lives and solidified plans to hook up later in the week.  I ended the conversation with a number close. 

Next Day Text Message to Jill:

Me:  Just wanted to say hello…and tell u I had fun meeting u and your friends last night..but I would have rather given u the massage Muahh Eric

Jill:  Likewise!  I will remember that!

Me:  We’ll have to do something about that…feel free to remind me any time

Jill:  U got it! 

Me:  Be good…we’ll talk next week..muuuaahh!

Jill:  U 2.  have fun 2nite if u go out.  Be careful

Tally for the night:

Approached/Initiated 7 sets of girls

Qualified 4 sets

Number closed 2 girls

The point of the Monday Field Report is not to create a brag blog.  It’s simply to demonstrate the techniques and strategies which comprise The Dating Matrix once practiced and eventually internalized, will create the results you want with women.  The goal is that the structure and framework which helps guide you through the approach, initiation, creating rapport, qualifying, and closing becomes a habit.  Soon you won’t even have to think about it.   And once you reach this point, your success will become more and more automated.

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