The fact is that the dating life you create regardless of your relationship goal/s will always be a numbers game. It’s that simple. You may not get the girl. Or you might. But the more you attempt, the better your odds.

Attempting in this sense is pushing yourself to approach women and open with girls you are attracted to. The skill sets, the language, and the tools I use to wrap it all into a pretty little model are only relevant until you internalize and then naturalize the process. Your goal is to become a self possessed man. An opening line or two won’t do it for you. Seeing yourself and learning about yourself as you go through the process to experience success will. At that point you have your own model.

Re framing behaviors and self perceptions doesn’t happen by accident. I’m sorry to say it won’t happen passively either. Are you willing to put yourself on the line? . If you are, and are doing so consciously, you can’t help but learn. A willingness to get rejected and look at your attempts as an experiment sets you apart from other guys. It’s what allows you to become the person you want to become. It makes seeking out women you are attracted to and approaching them a natural habit…

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