Overcoming social anxiety usually requires new skill sets. The skill sets that I teach are designed for you become comfortable with yourself so that you can initiate conversations, feel and create attraction, deepen rapport, introduce sexuality, date, and manage relationships.

The goal is that you integrate these skill sets so that internally you give yourself permission to do these things successfully. There is a saying that goes something like: whatever a person believes is true. If you don’t believe women can be attracted to you, you probably won’t approach them. However, if you did believe that women are attracted to you, I imagine you’d be approaching women whenever you liked.

The skill sets exist only to give you a template to follow and demonstrate success so that you begin to believe in yourself. After this point, they become far less important. Just like a “natural” with women doesn’t need to be told what to do, neither will you when begin to share that same inner game…

Eric Ivy
Dating Coach

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