Journey not Destination

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Do you know why improving your outward appearance is important? Do you still believe you need to have six pack abs or your hair styled by Frederic Fekkai to approach attractive women? Making an effort to get in shape or improve your style is directly correlated to the degree to which you sub communicate your [...]

Looking Busy or Getting Busy?

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
For those of you who are part of my regular audience, you know I love critiquing television dating shows. The obvious interpersonal dynamics and the large audiences make it a great learning tool.
Once again, I’ve got to hand it to the Bravo Chanel. Millionaire matchmaker consistently proves that having cash does not translate in having [...]

The Jerk

  
 Most guys without success with women think its external factors which are to blame.  The guys who are successful-and I’m not talking about naturals-know better.  The right car, clothes and cash are easy excuses.  But even when we have those things, the real work is done through doing.  We still have to approach that girl.  [...]

Lady on 20/20

On the ABC’s 20/20 last week they had a woman who studies brainwaves and has deduced which types of people make the best match.  She conducted an experiment where the 4 categories of people she has identified met at a social venue.  She then analyzed the social interactions and follow up dates that occurred as [...]