Why Make It Hard?

  
I love taking examples from real life, movies, and TV to help demonstrate concepts.  And since we recently talked about “frame”, I thought I would add to it with a movie I saw this weekend (long story) called Made of Honor.  In a nutshell, the lead character is a self absorbed, financially independent ladies man.  [...]

Frames As Comfort Levels Part II

  
After you learn the linear/ technical aspect to the skill sets comes the part where art meets science.  In a word it’s alchemy.  Professional athletes call it “the zone.”  It’s like being on auto pilot.  All your skills come to bear in a relaxed, natural, not having to think about it, kind of way. 
What you [...]

Frames As Comfort Levels Part I

 
Do you need someone to tell you how to socially manage interactions with your little brother?  Or older sister, or close friends?  Why not?  Does it have anything to do with quantity of time spent with them and the knowledge that comes as a result of that?  In these instances your comfort level enables various [...]