Ball Game

  
Nearly all men experience some level of approach anxiety.  Unfortunately, approach anxiety is often part of a larger pattern of anxiety that usually doesn’t end after you’ve advanced past the opening.  It often appears when it comes time to advance the interaction non verbally as well. 
Why is this?  The reason is because we’ve been programmed [...]

Form Follows Function

  
Why are you approaching that girl?  Why do you want to talk to her?  A lot of guys feel they have to conceal the fact that they have a physical interest in a girl.  It’s like a game where there’s a huge pink elephant in the room but no one’s acknowledging it.
Women don’t have a [...]

Clear For Take Off

  
So much of a being successful in social interactions is finding out where you stand in real time with your target.  You have to constantly calibrate and recalibrate your content, frame, and non verbals throughout the process until you know you’re on track. 
Think of a trial attorney trying a case, or an educator lecturing his [...]

Signs, Signs, Everywhere a Sign…

   
Would you have more confidence approaching and opening a woman if you knew that she already liked you?  Assuming your answer is yes, have you ever thought about the various ways women signal interest to men?  Do you know what to look for?
A very hot female friend of mine and I were out having drinks when we [...]