Frame Your Game

  
We all have different frames of reference.  My interpretation of another persons’ behavior may or may not be accurate due to the influencing of my own background.  Our perceptions are always colored by our past experiences and beliefs.
But you can use this to your advantage.  There are several non verbal and verbal components which are [...]

The One Over There..

 
Do you buy girls drinks when interested in them?  From across the bar?  Completely out of  earshot?
Congratulations, you are broadcasting the following:

I lack the confidence to approach
I don’t have a verbal skill set to demonstrate
I lack social intuition
The outcome of this interaction is being based 100% on my looks
I’ll just wing it if she accepts [...]