Player with a Heart?

  
When I lacked skills to present myself in congruence with who I am and what I wanted from women, often times I misrepresented myself.  I might say one thing when I really meant another.  Or I may associate with people and places that I would never consider now.  But my point is that I know [...]

Easy as 1,2, 3

  
Once you’ve learned proper body language and how to create a physical entry for your approach, opening happens next.  For most guys, the opener is the focus and causes a lot of stress.  If you feel that in one sentence, be it a direct opener, opinion opener, question, or situational observation, you must win her [...]

 
Last Tuesday my friends who were visiting in town threw me a dinner party.  Earlier in the day Yanet texted me saying she was back from Aspen and her sister was in town visiting from Italy.  I invited them to the dinner and we ended up going to the beach afterward.  Like most of the [...]

Your Turn

 
I get nervous sometimes. Even in the face of my success and experience.  But I’ve done the work to get here.  I’ve pulled myself up from the bootstraps to create the frame that women who don’t need me want me.  I’ve spent hours approaching, being rejected, getting discouraged, and feeling hopeless.  In fact, I’ve spent [...]